Over the past few days I've decided that dating stinks. It's all a terrible game that you lose over and over again. In order to win you have to find the perfect balance between communication and the lack thereof. If you say too much then you lose your shot with who you'd hoped would be prince charming. They could be scared away by the idea of committing to someone for once in their lives. If you don't say enough, you can also lose your chance. They might get the idea that you aren't interested or read too much into everything you do because your words don't say anything about what you're thinking. It's hard to know what to say or what not to say in many situations. Especially when you don't know how far the relationship can or should go. This makes DTRs a pain in the behind. If you can't decide on a relationship status, that can tear apart what could have been. Could it really become more complicated? I think not.
Sometimes I just wish I was married so I didn't have to play the dating game anymore.
1 comment:
I...like boys.
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